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Dealing With Difficult People

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               Most often we come across people who are not willing to listen to us on certain things even if it's good for them and they chose to do exactly what they want to do. We feel & see clearly that it's not at all right decision for them but they do not feel the same way. We get more concern about it particularly if they are attached to us or they are near and dear ones. Since there is an emotional sting attached we are more tensed as they don't want to do what is right and they what to follow which is fixed in their mind.   How do we deal with such people and situation and how do we come out of such worrisome situation?   First of all everyone has freedom to choose whatever they wish to do in their life. As a Friend, Relative, Guardian or Subhchintak ~ Well-wisher, we can share or put up our opinion or idea. It's we who are holding on, not the other person, they are happy in whatever they want to do, because of our attachment and emotions we get carried aw

EGO - Highway To Life Progress

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        Humans have tendency to pamper their own EGO. In no time these pampering of EGO makes it to grow larger than oneself. Slowly humans starts to think, feel and act from own EGO's purview and one starts considering all matters from personal perspectives.  In this situation one is unable to conceive neutrality. Each matter be it right or wrong is judged with a notion - what's in it for me - what benefits one can get out of every situation. When things go well EGO grows and when things go wrong, still out of EGO one keeps on dragging and carrying it instead of correcting it.   It's okay to accept one's mistake, it's okay to learn from the mistakes, it's okay to correct oneself, it's okay to be sorry, it's okay to keep aside one's EGO, it's wonderful to remain flexible, it's awesome to remain aware about reality, it's great to accept neutrality and it's lovely to grow humility & compassion.  EGO is not High-way but No-way and Ne

Indecision - Fearful Mind Games

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     Indecision Is Difficulty In Making Decisions, Inability To Decide Between Choices. One Remains In Ambiguity And Is Unable To Move With Confidence. It Could Be Due To Lack Of Determination, As When One Is Determined There Is No Room For Ambiguity. Either One Is Not Able To Analyse Appropriately The Available Choices Or There Is A Lace Of Confidence In Deciding Over The Choices. Lack Of Confidence Is Self-Deprecation Or Lack Of Self-Esteem, Meaning There Is Fear Of Something Deep Within. When One Is Not Able To Evaluate Choices It Means That The Fear Is Of Larger Magnitude. But When One Sees Choices But Is Indecisive Means That The Fear Is Seedling, It Has Just Making Back Door Entry, It Has Started Creating A Room Inside One’s Heart & Mind. This Is The Right Time To Get Rid Of Baby Fear Before This Young Fear Spreads Its Roots. One Has To Think Deep, See Three Dimensional Perspective And Must Make Hard Choices To Move On And To Progress Fearlessly. Fearless Mind & Heart Is

Wisdom Is Driven By An Engine of Intuition

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     Wisdom Is Quality Of Being Wise, Sensible, Knowledgeable, Rational, Smart, Sapient, Judicious, Perceptive, Sharp, Clever, Intelligent, Sagacious. It Is The Quality Of Having Knowledge, Experience, Great Judgment. Wisdom Is To Have Perceptive, An Insight Driven By Profound Thoughts Generated By An Engine Of Intuition. Careful Understanding Reveals That Wisdom Requires Perceptive, Perceptive Requires Perspective Of Things Or Matters, A Three Dimensional Thinking. With Limited Belief & Pre-Conceived Notions It’s Impossible To Think With Open Mind & With A Three Dimensional View. One Has To Unlock All Notions — Limited Beliefs For An Intuitive Engine To Start Functioning.  PERCEIVED NOTIONS ARE THE LOCKS ON THE DOOR TO WISDOM   MARY BROWNE Wisdom Is Wise-Dom, Where Wise Is Intelligent Man And Dom Is A Title Given To Person Of Higher Ranking, Nobles And More Specifically Title Given To Monk, Hence We Can Say Wisdom Is Wise-Monk Or Intelligent-Monk. Dom Also Means Decree Or Judg

Let's Live By Possibility Perspectives

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          Sometimes Things Seems Impossible Or Out Of One's Reach. In Such Situation It Is Important That One See The Possibility & Ability To Achieve It. Once There Is A Courage And Confidence On The 100% Possibility, One Must Find Out Ways In Which It Can Be Worked Out, By Observing It From All Possible Perspectives, By Dissecting It From All Three Dimensions, By Reaching To The Roots And By Finding The Way To Execute The Same, Step By Step, Action By Action. When One Follows These Processes Religiously, One Is Bound To Find Path For Achieving Things Which Seemed Impossible. Even After All These One Is Feeling & Seeing Impossibility, Than One Need To Work On Beliefs. One Must Remember That What One Believes Achieves. Everything Must Start With Right Mindset Which Will Allow Creative Faculty Of Mind To Explore The Possibility And Executive Faculty Of Mind To Act Beyond Normal, Allowing Universal Energy To Deliver Results In Proportion To The Energy Of The Actions Impleme

Enjoying Human Relations At Its Peak

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    It’s Human Tendency To Judge Someone As Well To Find Flaws, Above That It’s Considered To Be Okay To Make Someone Feel To Overcome Such Flaws. It’s Purely One’s Perspective Without Even Considering Judged Persons Feelings & Situations. It’s Too Easy For Human’s To Do Such Act And Feel Normal. Question Does One Use Same Yard Stick While Judging Oneself? Sounds Impossible, Than Why For Others? Is It Difficult To Accept Everyone The Way They Are? Actually It’s As Simple As One Expects For Oneself. One Must Always Be Non-Judgemental To Have Peace And Harmony Not Only With Others But Also Harmony & Peace From Within. One Must Love And Accept The Way People Are, This Will Also Simply Help To Love And Accept Oneself. It’s Because How One Is Outside Is A Reflection Of How One Is Inside. In This Way Equations Of Human Relations Will Be Simplified And Will Be At Peak With Far Better Understanding And Happiness. One Must Not Attempt To Fix Someone But Rather Must See Positive & Br

Getting Most Out Of Our Knowledge

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    Knowing Is Knowing And Doing Is Doing, Knowing And Doing Are Two Different Things. Knowing Is To Learn, To Gain Knowledge, To Create Right Understanding, To Educate Oneself, To Acquire Skills. Doing Is To Apply Knowledge - Skills, To Implement, To Execute, To Achieve, To Accomplish, To Take Massive Actions On Acquired Skills Or Knowledge Or Understanding, To Prove One's Capability On One's Learning. With Education & Knowledge There Is Increase In Exposure To Opportunities. With Application & Actions There Is A Chance To Date With The Exposed Opportunities & Grab It For Possible Encashment. At Mind Level Right Knowledge Builds Three Dimensional Perspectives & Awareness, And Right Actions Builds A Winning State Of Mind. Duo Acts At Both Conscious And Subconscious Levels Of Mind, Strengthening Oneself From Within To Deliver 100% In The Outer World. This Combination Of Knowledge & It's Application Creates A Platform To Explore One's True Potential, P