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Dealing With Difficult People

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               Most often we come across people who are not willing to listen to us on certain things even if it's good for them and they chose to do exactly what they want to do. We feel & see clearly that it's not at all right decision for them but they do not feel the same way. We get more concern about it particularly if they are attached to us or they are near and dear ones. Since there is an emotional sting attached we are more tensed as they don't want to do what is right and they what to follow which is fixed in their mind.   How do we deal with such people and situation and how do we come out of such worrisome situation?   First of all everyone has freedom to choose whatever they wish to do in their life. As a Friend, Relative, Guardian or Subhchintak ~ Well-wisher, we can share or put up our opinion or idea. It's we who are holding on, not the other person, they are happy in whatever they want to do, because of our attachment and emotions we get carried aw

Choice Between Ego & Compassion

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     Most Of Us Love To Talk About Our Stories, Achievements, Experiences &   Problems, But We Lack In Patience To Hear Someone Else Stories, Achievements, Experiences &   Problems, What A Hypocrisy !! We Close Our Doors To Learn, Re-Learn, Understand, To Analyse Others Success & Failure. We Live In A World Of I, Forgetting The World Of We. Our Ego Always Wants To Portray Our Greatness So Much So That We Are Unable To Connect To Others With Genuinity. We Are Unable To Listen & Understand Others Feelings & Situations. We Just Want To Express Our Self (boastfully or selfishly) Forgetting Others Emotions, Situations, Circumstances. Due To This Ego No One Really Gives A   Damn About Anything We Are Portraying, Ultimately Ego Clashes With Ego And No One Is Really Listening. When We Care, Love & Respect Compassionately to Others Feelings, Situations, Circumstances, In Reciprocation We Get Similar Treatment. We Create A Ground To Passionately Listen To Each Other. Reme