THOUGHT FOR SUCCESS

               Most often we come across people who are not willing to listen to us on certain things even if it's good for them and they chose to do exactly what they want to do. We feel & see clearly that it's not at all right decision for them but they do not feel the same way. We get more concern about it particularly if they are attached to us or they are near and dear ones. Since there is an emotional sting attached we are more tensed as they don't want to do what is right and they what to follow which is fixed in their mind.   How do we deal with such people and situation and how do we come out of such worrisome situation?   First of all everyone has freedom to choose whatever they wish to do in their life. As a Friend, Relative, Guardian or Subhchintak ~ Well-wisher, we can share or put up our opinion or idea. It's we who are holding on, not the other person, they are happy in whatever they want to do, because of our attachment and emotions we get carried aw

    As We Understand Driving Force Behind Firm Decisions Is Determination. Determination Leads To Courageous Outlook Towards Success. There Is A Science Behind Determination, Confidence, Self-Esteem & Self-Complacent. Complacent In Positive Sense And One Must Not Misunderstand It With Self-Boasting Or Self-Arrogance. Positive Complacent Attitude Builds Determination To Do And Achieve Things, Leading To Clarity In Decision Making. Also It's Understood That Character Determines The Attitude Or Vice Versa. The Force Behind Right Attitude, Character & Determination Is Passion. When One Is Passionate Towards Their Positive Dreams, Thoughts, Purpose, Aims, Goals, Task, Work, One remains determined. Passion creates action oriented mindset leading to action plans which in turn eases the execution process. Passion Aligns One's Frequency With The Universal Frequency. With Right Attitude & Universal Connection, One Develops Ability To Decode Knowledge Energy Into Ideas, Discov

     Indecision Is Difficulty In Making Decisions, Inability To Decide Between Choices. One Remains In Ambiguity And Is Unable To Move With Confidence. It Could Be Due To Lack Of Determination, As When One Is Determined There Is No Room For Ambiguity. Either One Is Not Able To Analyse Appropriately The Available Choices Or There Is A Lace Of Confidence In Deciding Over The Choices. Lack Of Confidence Is Self-Deprecation Or Lack Of Self-Esteem, Meaning There Is Fear Of Something Deep Within. When One Is Not Able To Evaluate Choices It Means That The Fear Is Of Larger Magnitude. But When One Sees Choices But Is Indecisive Means That The Fear Is Seedling, It Has Just Making Back Door Entry, It Has Started Creating A Room Inside One’s Heart & Mind. This Is The Right Time To Get Rid Of Baby Fear Before This Young Fear Spreads Its Roots. One Has To Think Deep, See Three Dimensional Perspective And Must Make Hard Choices To Move On And To Progress Fearlessly. Fearless Mind & Heart Is

    Lot Many Times We Look Outside For Concurrence Or Opinion On Our Own Decisions, So Much So That We Ignore Our Inner Voice. Each day We Get Lot Many Ideas, Solutions, Uplifting Thoughts, But We Are Habitual To Suppress All Such Creative Thoughts, To Degrade Our Self, We Love To Underestimate Our Own Existence. We Are Unable To Listen And Follow Our Heart And Intuition, Due To Lack Of Confidence On Our Self, We Are Unable To Take Any Bold Decisions. Boldness Requires Courage, Courage To Believe Our Self, Courage To Love Our Self And Respect Our Decisions, Courage To Execute Our Ideas And Dreams, Courage To See What Others Can’t See, Courage To Have Vision & Mission, Courage Towards Fulfillment & Happiness. We Must Cultivate Habits Of Courageous Decision Making Without Compromising Our Inner Values And Creative Thoughts.  

      We Are What We Believe And We Think, React And Act Based On Our Beliefs. It’s The Mind Which Carries Blueprint Of Our Beliefs, And Our Thoughts Remains More Or Less In And Around The Said Blueprint. Hence We Perceive And See What Our Mind Wants To See & Understand (Which Is Based On Our Blueprint). We See & Conceive Perspectives Purely Based On Our Beliefs. If Our Beliefs Are Creative, Constructive, Positive We Are Likely To Be Enterprising, Enthusiastic & Progressive & If Our Beliefs Are Negative, Destructive, Compromising We Are Likely To Be Lethargic, Boring & Stagnative. To Have Clarity In Life, To Experience The Three Dimensional Prospective Of Life, We Must Open Our Mind, Breaking All Limiting Beliefs, Adapting To Ever Changing & Challenging Environments, Cultivating Agility & Broadness In Beliefs. With Such Flexible Mindset We Are Not Bound By Any Reasoning, We Are No More Judgmental, We Remain Observant Even To Our Own Thoughts, We Have Better

     Humans Love To Dwell In Past And Regret Over Many Past Matters. Lot Of Time Is Spent On Thinking About Past Life, Decisions Made In Past And Regretting On The Consequences. One Thinks About The Second Choice Over The Decision Taken And Imagines About What One Would Have Achieved If Second Or Alternative Decisions Were Made, Making Another World Of Unrealistic Imagination. One Truly Forgets That Such Thoughts Or Imaginations Has No Meaning Or Any Effect On The Present Life Results.   In Fact Such Process Multiplies The Intensity To Regret. This Is A Never Ending Thought Process. Instead One Should Learn From The Past Mistakes And Must Move On. One Must Use The Energy & Time For Making Better Choices In Present Time For The Brighter Future, One Must Utilise Creative Imagination For Building Future. Possibly Best Way To Overcome Regents Is To Forget And Forgive, Forgetting The Incidences And Forgiving The Associated Persons. One Must Cherish The Past And Take Inspirations For The

          Humans Love Blame Game, Especially When There Is Uncertainty And Specially When Responsibility Is Involved. There Could Be Short Term Gain In Blame Game But One Is Forgetting That In Long Term It's A Biggest Loss To The Blamer. How And Why ? One Must Understand That The Outcome Of One's Situation Is Purely Based On The Past Actions Or Decisions Taken Or Even Not Taken For The Given Situation. Not Taking Decision Or Action Is Also An Action. One Is Merely Satisfying (Outer) Oneself By Blaming Others For The Outcome, But Deep Down One Knows The Truth And Can't Satisfy (Inner) In True Sense.  Better Be A Gamer Than A Blamer, Be An Actor Than A Spectator.  Blame Game Is Merely A Waste Of Energy, Instead One Must Focus That Energy On Real Actions Or Strategy Building. To Have True Control Over Life, One Must Take One's Own Responsibility. Responsibilities For All Acts, Deeds, Thoughts, Desires, Dreams, Words. One Must Understand That One's Future Lies In The

          When We Do Things For Which We Are Highly Passionate Than It Is Most Likely To Be Executed From Heart And Actions Taken By Giving 100% Of Our Heart Leads To Sure Shot Success. This Is The Process And Science Behind Success. When We Do Things From Heart We Focus On Our Core Qualities - Genius And Utilise Best Of All Our Core Abilities To Breakthrough. Therefore Success Is In Executing Our Core  Abilities In The Desired Direction To Achieve What We Want.  Success Is Want - Thought, Desire - Dream - Goal - Feeling, Ability - Plan - Focused Knowledge - Decision And Execution - Action. In Short Thought + Feeling + Decision + Action = Result Is Success.